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What sex must always involve penetration? The answer is, no. You and your partner can expand your knowledge and experience of sex through sensual touch.
Sensual touch is a touch activity in a pleasant way that is also associated with intimacy, showing affection and providing a sense of comfort.
Some couples use a sensual touch as a means of foreplay. Whatever the purpose, the following sensual touch menus deserve a chance for you to try.
Cuddling or cuddling is a classic way to increase intimacy with your partner. Hugging will trigger the release of oxytocin aka the ‘cuddle hormone’ so that it creates a sense of comfort, closeness and intimacy.
Hugging is not only done as a greeting alone. Make the hugging session even more special, such as cuddling in bed without clothes and just having a warm blanket.
After a tiring work, massage becomes a means to release tension and stress. As reported HealthlineYou and your partner can massage each other in the back, feet, hands to the fingers, head or scalp area.
This massage will relieve muscle tension as well as get closer to your partner. To create a warmer and more relaxed mood, combine with aromatherapy oils for massage.
3. Explore ‘unexpected’ areas
Sensual touch on sensitive areas will pump passion. You and your partner should not be fixated on the genital area which is very sensitive. In fact, there are areas that have been considered normal but when touched the sensation is extraordinary.
Kate McCombs, sex educator, suggests communicating with your partner about the areas you want to touch. However, reported WebMD, he advised the adam to give a touch in the area of the inner wrist, neck above the breast, buttocks, scalp. behind the knees, ears and feet.
As reported Daily MailThere are several areas of a man’s body that deserve more attention, including the lips, ears, neck and nipples. In addition, the genital area is indeed a mandatory area. You need to be more creative in giving touch, for example kissing the lips slowly and giving a little bite.
4. Take a bath together
It doesn’t have to be in bed, giving a sensual touch can also be done in the bathroom. There’s nothing wrong with taking a bath together with a partner so that it becomes more intimate and can help each other to be more relaxed. The body will be more relaxed by taking a warm bath, mild scented soap, rubbing each other and giving massage.
5. Play with food
Sensual touch can be so fun and filling. You can include food in bed sessions. Melted chocolate, honey, whipped cream, even ice cream will be a fun game.
Maybe you can play a simple game of cleaning each other’s melted chocolate on one area of your partner’s body without hands.
For the record, keep food away from sensitive areas including the anus and genitals because it can trigger infection.
Bondage or games with rope ties are not always about sex but are still closely related to sensuality. You don’t have to follow complicated bonding techniques like in Japanese porn videos. Simply tie your partner’s hands and provide stimulation to sensitive areas that are guaranteed to make bed sessions more enjoyable.
Curiosity, something unexpected often brings so much passion. An eye patch will work perfectly to give your partner a surprise. Just try to close your partner’s eyes and then give stimulation such as kisses on the neck, ears to other areas that are more sensitive.
Blindfold games can also be combined with temperature games. Hot melted chocolate and ice cream, why not?