Jakarta, TOPNews Indonesia —
Becomes intimate with your partner is very important in a relationship. In addition to bringing you closer and feeling connected, when you love one another, it can also be physically and emotionally satisfying.
However, in some relationships, there are times during or after the relationship, you know something is wrong but can’t pinpoint exactly what the problem is.
As reported Bustle, sex can be a great way to look at trust issues, a sign that chemistry is lacking, or simply that you’re not good enough to stay together.
If the physical side feels a little different, that doesn’t mean you should break up right away. It could be that you both need to be more comfortable with each other or talk about what you both want.
But there are some red flags during sex that you should watch out for, because they could indicate that you and your partner are not compatible.
1. Not replying to your needs
If one is generally selfish, that quality is bound to show up in bed too. A self-centered partner will focus entirely on you to please them, instead of making sure you’re satisfied too.
“Overall there’s no ‘must’ when it comes to sex and sexual satisfaction,” says Marisa T. Cohen, relationship coach and researcher at Paired.
“However, if you or your partner have shown a preference and the person has gone from respecting them to ignoring their requests or wishes, this could indicate a problem.”
2. Not making eye contact
Having sex is a very vulnerable act. Not making eye contact can be a sign of a person’s reluctance to be completely vulnerable and trusting.
Sure, some people prefer to close their eyes during sex. However, if the person important to you never looks in the eye when the two of you are intimate, something emotional may be going on.
According to Cohen, they may associate sexuality with shyness, fear or unwillingness to connect, and they may not be ready to let you go.
If you feel like they’re putting some distance between you during intimacy – and you want more – it’s worth finding out what’s going on.
Check out other danger signs that you should watch out for during sex on the following page.
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